3 Alpha Male Traits To Become The Man Women Want To Date

Why is it some men seem to have all the luck when it comes to getting women?

Women are emotional creatures by nature. They make decisions based solely on feelings when it comes to dating men. They might be dating a complete jerk but their emotions are so strong for that jerk that they continue to stick with that jerk.

Hence, by developing traits that appeal to the emotions of women, you can become that man of their dreams without becoming a jerk. I call these traits - Alpha Male Traits.

Alpha Male Trait #1 - Genuine Love for Women

People often mixed up between jerks and alpha males. Therefore, I am going to clear any misunderstandings here. The very distinct difference between a jerk and alpha male is the way how each treats his woman.

Jerks treat women as if they are toys to be fool around with and have little or no respect for women. They often hurt women but they also know to do coax women. That's the way of how jerk being unpredictable and hence why some women are attracted to jerks.

Alpha males are totally different; they genuinely love women and have the utmost respect for women. That's why alpha males don't hurt women. They do things that are different from the average guys but please women at the same time.

Thus, be an alpha male instead of a jerk.

Alpha Male Trait #2 - Bring Out the Leader

Alpha males are leaders and they lead people. Leaders are people who inspire, motivate and make crucial decisions. Leaders are also people that stood strong in times of danger and hardship and serve as a source of inspiration for others.

So how does this applies to dating with women? Simple... in most relationships, a woman wants to be led; she expects that you make the simplest decisions at times. And this applies to where to for dinner, fun etc. Women just don't like men that are wishy-washy and can't make decisions. 

Alpha Male Trait #3 - Know What You Want

Know what type of relationship you really want can save a lot of time and energy. Alpha male know what he wants as it can mean a different kind of approach. It also gives the girl a better time as she will not have to spend time and energy figuring out what you want.

Not knowing what you want send mixed signals to the girl and you may come across as a confused, aimless guy which portrays a beta male quality. This is not what you want. Hence, before you even do anything, figure out what you want.

You don't have to be a jerk in order to naturally attract women. Remember, women are emotional creatures by nature. You have to send the correct emotional signals to attract them. Are you ready to be more attractive and have more women dating you? Then, be the Alpha Male.

Do Women Like Alpha Males?

Alpha is the first letter of the Greek alphabet. In astronomy, it is the brightest star in a constellation. In common parlance, alpha means to be the first.

Alpha males are guys who seem to be leading the pack, the hunter, the ever-reliable male god. They are all around us, in the ranks burly blue collar workers to the impeccable corporate leaders. So why do women like alpha males; or do they?

Women do not only like alpha males; they adore them! Alpha males are the stuff that women's romantic imaginations are of. These are men who get women's attention wherever they go.

The attraction lies in the power seemingly possessed by alpha males. It's not really just about the money but it is about strength in character and the ability to be respected by his peers.

A woman defines an alpha male as someone who is vocal about what he wants and who does everything to get it. An alpha male is not just cocky our loud, but there is a semblance of authority in his voice that seems to attract others, male or female. An alpha male is filled with confidence about his looks though he may not be handsome and is confident about his intelligence though he may not be a Wharton graduate.

In the animal kingdom the alpha males are those who lead the pack with an aggressive behavior. The animals have their own social structure where the alpha or the dominant males get to mate with the females, with the principle that the alpha males will most probably produce better offsprings. Same goes for the alpha males in the society of humans.

Women describe alpha males as those with an innate superiority and who literally leads the pack. These are males who are aggressive and assertive despite their limitations.

To be able to understand an alpha male, one has to get to know his characteristics such as but not limited to being:

Born leaders

Alpha males are born to lead the pack. They are known to be the peacemakers and the ones responsible for stopping fights after and aggression usually started off by a bully. These men are usually dignified men who have leadership capabilities and they sometimes rule their world. An alpha male is a no nonsense leader who cannot be dictated upon and who stands by his principles.

Gandhi is an alpha male. He is a charismatic leader who refused to be pressured into giving up his cause. He was able to win his battle by espousing non-violence. Microsoft czar Bill Gates is an example of an alpha male who continues to change the world and its people. There are many alpha males in a variety of settings, all of whom have provided inspiration and great leadership to their sectors. Most alpha males are attracted and married to strong and outstanding women.

Confident

Alpha males are so sure of themselves but not to point of being cocky. They have high self esteem, believing that they have the power to do anything they want and to achieve their dreams. They know they have that special something within them but they do not boat nor talk about their strength.

Women are attracted to the alpha because of the confidence that emanates from them. This confidence manifests itself in the way he carries himself and the way he deals with others. This confidence is shown in the way he does things and treats other people. The alpha male's high self esteem makes him confident that he can get the best girl in town. The truth is, the girls usually flock around him.

Assertive

Being confident of himself and in what he can achieve, the alpha male is always assertive but not to the point of being pushy. He knows what he wants and how to get it. He asserts his rights and the rights of his friends. This may be the reason why alpha males are so popular with the pack. He leads them and gives them protection. Women love the alpha male for being assertive, of being able to know he can do it and doing something to achieve what he wants to do.

Born leaders, confident and assertive. These are the qualities that make women swoon over the alpha male. Need we say more?